How to End Procrastination
When
you procrastinate on an important task for any length of time, stress
and anxiety are sure to follow. The tendency to procrastinate is common
to all. Here are some tips to get yourself motivated on that important
project you've been putting off.
Recall,
if you will, an important task where you procrastinated. Now, consider
how much stress and anxiety you created for yourself by putting off
this task. Conversely, how much joy, pride and satisfaction is lost
when you don't pursue an important goal? Clearly, the price you pay for
procrastination is high. The fact that you are reading this indicates
you probably have come to a similar conclusion. In fact, managing
procrastination may be the single most positive action you can make to improve the quality of your life.
What Makes Us Procrastinate?
Procrastinators
often suffer from strong negative self-talk and a cruel internal
critic. Some common themes of procrastination self-talk include:
- "The task is really awful"
- "I'll do a terrible job"
- "Its not fair (ie The exams are ridiculous, I can't stand that instructor)"
- "It must be perfect. Its not worth doing otherwise."
- "Its ok if I quit, it doesn't matter"
- "Someone else will take care of it"
Naturally
then, our minds find a way to divert attention to a more pleasurable
temporary escape (ie playing, watching TV, sleeping, etc). The
result? Rushing at the last minute. Panic. Anxiety. This is usually
followed by more internal criticism: - "you are lazy"
- "you always wait to the last minute"
Without overcoming your negative procrastination internal dialogue, you are certain to continue a pattern of procrastination. Breaking The Pattern
Since
your behavior follows your thoughts, it is possible for you to instill
powerful positive self-talk and increase your motivation dramatically.
Imagine what would happen if your automatic inner dialogue went like
this instead: - "I want to accomplish this in the best way possible"
- "I have ample capacity to accomplish all tasks I have before me."
- "I know I'll do fine and I will give myself time to do it right."
- "This is worthwhile and I will feel great when it's finished."
- "I am eager to get going on this."
The
result? You feel motivated. Now projects begin to get done. To-do lists
shrink. You enjoy the satisfaction and sense of peace that comes from
knowing the important projects in your life are handled. You deserve to
feel this joy, peace and self-confidence. Read and speak these
positive affirmations several times over the next few days. When you
notice yourself slipping into procrastination, write down the thoughts
that you are having. Make this a habit and see the powerful difference
it makes in your life.